There is a cupboard door in my house that hasn’t closed properly since spring. I know exactly what’s wrong with it. I know roughly how long it would take to fix. And every single day since then, I have chosen my inbox over a screwdriver, because the inbox has a deadline attached and the cupboard door, apparently, does not.
Except it does. It’s just a deadline I haven’t met yet, and the bill for missing it is quietly getting larger the longer I look away.
Hiding in Plain Sight
I’ve built an entire identity around being someone who’s “too busy” for the house, and I want to be honest about what that actually is. It’s not busyness. It’s avoidance wearing a work lanyard. A full diary is a genuinely excellent place to hide from a task you don’t want to do, because nobody, including you, questions a “no” that comes wrapped in client calls and deadlines. I have used my own business as a shield against a to-do list I find boring, fiddly and faintly overwhelming, and I suspect I’m not the only one.
The trouble with this particular hiding place is that houses, unlike inboxes, don’t wait patiently for you to get to them. One report I read, looking specifically at homeowners in Northern Ireland, found that 47 per cent had postponed significant repairs because of rising costs, and that letting small issues compound, the kind of thing a neglected leak quietly does to flooring, ceilings and electrics over time, can add up to nearly £50,000 once everything is finally added together. The precise percentage will shift depending on where you live, and the currency will shift with it, but the shape of the problem- a full-time job competing with a slowly worsening house- travels well beyond one postcode. You can read the full repair cost breakdown here, and I’d recommend doing it somewhere you can immediately go and check your own boiler afterwards.
The Compounding I Should Have Recognised Sooner
Here’s what stopped me, and it’s a bit embarrassing given what I do for a living. I talk constantly about compounding, about how a small, ignored cost grows quietly in the background until it’s suddenly no longer small anymore, and how the whole game in investing is catching that early rather than late. I have never once applied that logic to my own house. A hairline crack, a slow drip, a door that doesn’t quite shut, none of it announces itself as urgent. It just sits there, compounding- the same way small, unexamined costs compound against you anywhere else in life if you let them. It’s the same principle behind the small, unglamorous habits that actually move the needle over time, which I wrote about here: 10 Changes That Actually Move the Needle.
What I’m Actually Doing About It
Not a total home overhaul, because that’s just a bigger, more elaborate way of hiding, this time behind an impossible standard instead of a full diary. What I’ve started doing is smaller and less impressive: one item off the list per week, chosen the night before, treated with the same non-negotiable status I give a client deadline. The cupboard door took eleven minutes. Eleven. I had been avoiding an eleven-minute task since March, which tells you the block was never really about time.
The work diary was never the real obstacle. It was the excuse I trusted most, because it came with built-in permission. I’m learning slowly to notice when I reach for it for something that isn’t actually about work at all.
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